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·Feb 15

5 Things You Can Feel When Someone You Love Has Cancer

There’s a lot, it turns out. — As a woman in my mid-twenties, who hadn’t dealt with any major family deaths or illnesses, my mother’s breast cancer diagnosis knocked the wind out of me. In November 2022, a nagging discomfort in her breast led my mother to finally schedule a mammogram she’d been putting off for years…

Relationships

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5 Things You Can Feel When Someone You Love Has Cancer
5 Things You Can Feel When Someone You Love Has Cancer
Relationships

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·Feb 14

How to Avoid Saying the Wrong Thing to Someone In Crisis

A simple guide to knowing what to do and what not to do. — When my mother was diagnosed with breast cancer, we heard a lot of interesting remarks, but my favorite came from one of my mother’s colleagues. She wanted, nay needed, to visit my mother, but at the time, my mother didn’t feel like seeing anyone. Her colleague’s response? “This isn’t just…

Relationships

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How to Avoid Saying the Wrong Thing to Someone In Crisis
How to Avoid Saying the Wrong Thing to Someone In Crisis
Relationships

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Love Theory

·Feb 9

When Your Grief Is So Big It Swallows You Whole

And what you should do about it. — My mother was diagnosed with Stage IV breast cancer in November 2022. She and my father are playing the situation down to such a degree that I feel like I’m drowning for no reason. They keep telling me and my siblings that there’s nothing to worry about, that chemotherapy’s going…

Psychology

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When Your Grief Is So Big It Swallows You Whole
When Your Grief Is So Big It Swallows You Whole
Psychology

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Love Theory

·Feb 7

7 Actions That Will Quietly Boost Your Emotional Intelligence

Quick and easy tips for managing your emotions. — Some of my fondest memories of my grandfather include watching boxing matches together on his old television. When I was 11, we made a pact with each other. In an attempt to get him to quit smoking, we agreed that every time his favorite boxer lost, he would refrain from…

Relationships

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7 Actions That Will Quietly Boost Your Emotional Intelligence
7 Actions That Will Quietly Boost Your Emotional Intelligence
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Love Theory

·Oct 21, 2022

7 Signs You’re Dating a Master Manipulator

Here are manipulative tactics you should look out for. — I was stuck in a toxic relationship when I was 20, with a guy who was a few years older than me. He treated me like a queen half the time, but the other half, I was no better than a speck of dirt. All the jerking around and being…

Relationships

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7 Signs You’re Dating a Master Manipulator
7 Signs You’re Dating a Master Manipulator
Relationships

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Love Theory

·Oct 17, 2022

6 Signs Your Friend Is Actually an Emotional Vampire

If you notice some of these signs, I suggest you run for the hills. — Anna’s name flashes up as my phone rings for the third time today. I debate on whether or not to pick up because I know exactly what she’s going to say. I have laundry to do and dinner to make, but the loyal, guilty part of me picks up knowing…

Relationships

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6 Signs Your Friend Is Actually an Emotional Vampire
6 Signs Your Friend Is Actually an Emotional Vampire
Relationships

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Love Theory

·Oct 13, 2022

6 Key Questions to Ask Before Getting a Pet With Your Partner

Some important things to know before you make this big commitment. — I was this close to getting a dog before I met my partner. The only reason I didn’t go ahead with it? Honestly, he made a great point that if we moved in together someday, we could get the perfect dog together. I’m not going to lie. Having someone to…

Relationships

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6 Key Questions to Ask Before Getting a Pet With Your Partner
6 Key Questions to Ask Before Getting a Pet With Your Partner
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Love Theory

·Oct 11, 2022

7 Signs You Have Crossed Into an Emotional Affair Unknowingly

Spoiler alert: Emotional cheating definitely counts as cheating. — In its cutesiest form, an emotional affair looks exactly like the earliest seasons of The Office: when Pam was still engaged to Roy from the warehouse but was awfully close to office prankster Jim. Together, Pam and Jim were cuddly and sweet, and a perfect picture of two people so…

Relationships

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7 Signs You Have Crossed Into an Emotional Affair Unknowingly
7 Signs You Have Crossed Into an Emotional Affair Unknowingly
Relationships

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Mind Cafe

·Oct 9, 2022

6 Self-Love Actions That Can Significantly Boost Your Confidence

Easy ways to love yourself more and feel confident every day. — I’ll be honest. One of the things that held me back from pursuing my dreams for many years was my fear of failure. So how did I overcome it? I worked on my self-confidence. …

Relationships

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6 Self-Love Actions That Can Significantly Boost Your Confidence
6 Self-Love Actions That Can Significantly Boost Your Confidence
Relationships

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Love Theory

·Oct 4, 2022

7 Eye-Opening Signs You and Your Partner Need a Vacation ASAP

A little romantic vacation might be just what your relationship needs. — Before her current relationship, my best friend couldn’t stay in a relationship for longer than a year. I asked her several times why she didn’t allow her relationships to grow, and she always pointed out that her partners didn’t make an effort to spend more time with her. …

Relationships

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7 Eye-Opening Signs You and Your Partner Need a Vacation ASAP
7 Eye-Opening Signs You and Your Partner Need a Vacation ASAP
Relationships

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Jaleel & Nicole

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Writing about life and how to be better at it. We cover topics in psychology, mental health, and relationships. https://jaleelnicole.medium.com/membership

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